Not being traditionally masculine does not make you less of a man.

The man who moved me most in life was a sensitive, artistic, nervous, sweetheart of a man, whom I doted on, had him sit on my lap while he cried, cuddled and kissed him until he felt better, called him sugary names (lamb, darling, sweetheart), pet him often, and just absolutely loved on him.

Men often get upset if you refer to them as “cute”, and I was unable to feel any of them put me on equal footing before him. The fact that he was emotionally open and outright with his feelings was what had attracted me to him in the first place. I am absolutely not a “dominant” person, but my desire to protect and love him in this was something no other man even allowed me the opportunity to do.

I recall saying that something was “cute” while we were out, and he quietly asked “am I cute?”. The answer was, of course, “Yes, darling! Of course you are!” If he wanted me to, I would have moved all the stars in the sky for that man.

Men (often secretly) desire to be desired, and it is weirdly seen as a more feminine urge. However, men who identify as masc can still desire the sensitivity of desire. Nothing feminine about it.

There are women out there who will desire what you have to offer. It may be a search to find them, but they are out there.

Because you’re a thoughtless asshole with shitty opinions.

“Why do women feel so threatened being approached in spaces they an unable to leave safely & on their own accord? 🥺”

And he’s right!

Women are not a hivemind. They are individual people, with their own thoughts, hopes, dreams, feelings, and aspirations.

Maybe you should start by seeing women on an equal level as human beings, first and foremost.

I only wear flipflops & (begrudgingly) winter boots. But considering how wet our springs always are, I should invest in a nice pair of shoes/boots that can hold up in the rain…

As far as bags go, I’ve been thinking about investing in a new bag, only because I’d like mine to be able to hold my upgraded 32oz water bottle. I love & have carried this bag for years! Got it from an artist on Etsy as a daily bag and, goddamn, it has fucking held up!!

Hold on… grabbing a link…

Got it!!

https://www.etsy.com/listing/236196308/leaf-backpack-book-messenger-bag

Year of the Cat by Al Stewart

https://youtu.be/Ak_MTXQALa0

Most people I’ve shown this song to are like “I don’t get it” and I’m like “haha yeah I know…” 🥲

Heard it for the first time a few years ago and it’s been buzzing in my brain since then. I don’t listen to much music anymore (lots is too overwhelming for me), but this one never left me.

Women aren’t paid enough to be both your bangmaid and your therapist.

I always tell my kid “if your sexuality changes as you go, that’s fine. It doesn’t mean that you’re ‘fake’. Sometimes our preferences evolve with our changing knowledge about ourselves and it can become something else. It’s fine to change.”

I remember girls being talked about behind their backs in high school because they started dating boys and thus were “sluts faking being lesbian”. Fukkin’ gross. Gay is valid. Lesbian is valid. Bisexual is valid. Asexual is valid. 👍

Incredible!!! Thank you so much!!

I am! Worry not.

Please note that !WomensStuff@lazysoci.al is a women-identifying community only.

!askwomen@lemmy.ca is where you would want to go. 👍

To encourage the revolt of the increasingly dissatisfied American public.

And for those who say “that’s not going to happen”, you do not speak for the rest of us. There is absolutely unrest. The news cycle does not reflect reality.

My stupid ass thought it was a different kind of shot. Was like “wow, they over-salted that rim!”

Absolutely. He’s a puppet.

But I firmly believe that a bully that faces no consequences will continue to escalate.

Cut off the US. Support the people’s protesting. Trust me when I say that there is more opposition than ever. Even in my ultra-conservative town, the flags have disappeared. It’s getting… interesting.

All talk.

Been around plenty of disordered folks and he fits a very specific bill.

He’s chickenshit. Lotta threats but won’t follow through. His reputation is everything to him, but he will absolutely turn tail and run if he is challenged by a more powerful opponent. He will absolutely hold a grudge and try to get revenge in a “”“sneaky”“” way, but he’s still an absolute fucking idiot.

Gee, thanks!

Congrats on becoming one with the Drew Crew!!

I live for his current content! Edgy jokes & constant swearing to thrift store journeys & food discoveries. Absolutely love it!

He was actually how I discovered the Cosmic Crisp & sparked my love for it. (:

I’ve legit had this happen to me in high school. I stopped being friends with guys after it became… “aggressive”.